Sunday, February 17, 2008

*~*Just Me*~*

HMMMM...that is what this image reminds me of. John and Tatiana, what can you say about us....HMMM...full of love, fun, funny, sweet, amazing relationship, soulmates, learn to deal and accept what is given to them. John and i have talked and we have decided that in a few weeks we are going to try counciling...everyone is asking why you guys are always happy and look so good, but john and i want us to last, we have a few flaws when we argue but when we argue it lasts about an hour then we just smile and move on. lol. John and i will do what ever we can to make US work. We want to be the perfect couple that people just see and go "ahhhh they are so cute" though we get that now, we want everyone to know that we are real and we love eachother so much. John and i have talked lots about growing old together and being those adorable old people that hold hands that walk down the streets, or eating lunch together talking about the small things that are so funny to them. We have gone through alot, including many COURT dates due to his ex wife, and both of them wanting the kids, but we have been homeless, he has lost all of his friends, due to me not meeting there standards, no car, not seeeing the boys, nothing. Now, we have a 3 bedroom house, with a pool, 3 cars, john is going to be going off on his own soon YAYAYAYAYa. and i can go to hair school soon, johns friends are the coolest, they have come by to hang and are really trying to get to know me, and we have the boys every week, which we are trying and fighting for more. For the longest time i hated Johns Ex wife, she just could not stop, but now i dont let her get to me, john and i have such a positive outlook on life now, nothing bothers us as much anymore (kill them with a smile). John and i are reaching 2 years of being married and wow, TOTALLY WORTH ALL IT. If i had to pass one word of wisdom on to future married couples, i would have to say LISTEN to eachother. Its the greatest amount of respect and worth it in the end.

1 comment:

Liz said...

Those jackasses just better watch out. Their standards are set too LOW and they can't deal with people that are better than them or who can choose to be happy no matter what is going on. They can kiss our asses!!!